I have often thought about the merits of giving charity to the poor and needy etc. Not so much in how does the charity benefit them but rather the act of giving charity on the part of the fortunate who have charity to give.
My view is that most of us give charity because we are too lazy to make a real, lasting effort and difference. You see, its very easy to write out a cheque or deposit money into some account and then wipe your hands of the matter based on the justification that you’ have done something for those poor and needy out there.
Its complete bullshit!
I agree and concede that is better that (maybe) that they receive something rather than nothing but lets be honest with ourselves…who of us is willing to actually go do some real charity work with individuals in the townships or in Africa somewhere? Yeah I thought so.
Now I don’t think we should be too hard on ourselves for this either. I mean, first port of call is to actually give a shit about the needy and of course, if you don’t give a shit, then i guess, you have nothing to feel guilty about, right?
I personally feel very little for human causes as I have the somewhat hard-ass view that they can help themselves. For me, it’s all about the animals but even saying that, I know I am guilty of just making a bank deposit and not actually gettting involved on the ground. I know others who have been far more giving of their time despite their busy schedules so I am not going to use that excuse.
Live and learn I guess!
about 2 years ago
Umm so what you’re saying is that you shouldn’t bother if you don’t do it right? even though i’m personally not big on giving to charities myself i think that every bit does help. the fact that you are giving your hard earned cash that you could have put towards something nice for yourself and giving it to someone else in need should count for something! i agree that its not the best possible way to help them but it is a way… Vaughan(Quote)
about 2 years ago
As I said in the article, giving something is better than giving nothing but my emphasis is whether giving something purely in the form of a cash transfer is merely compensating for genuine lack of interest or care.
I can speak for myself and say that it certainly is, I know i should be doing more or even caring more, but instead, i give some money to some charities (animals charities in my case) when maybe i should go spend some time at the SPCA and walk dogs or something
Especially in SA where most charity money ends up in someone’s new mercedes….
there is a completely different school of thought which reckons that giving charity and aid (talking large scale now) is actually keeping the bulk of Africa in poverty as opposed to helping solve it….i am beginning to agree with them…. Doron Dusheiko(Quote)
about 2 years ago
I agree with you on the aid thing but maybe its more down to doing some proper research on your charities and making sure that your money does make a difference. there are good people out there, who need money to do some good.
all i’m saying is that it doesn’t have to be a all or nothing thing. giving money or even doing work for other people doesn’t make you a good or bad person, i think it just comes down to your intentions. if you are trying to make a difference in someones life then what difference does it make how you do it? Vaughan(Quote)
about 2 years ago
of course you are not a bad person if you simply give money but I just think that for most people its more of a matter of ticking the boxes and dotting the i’s than actually doing it because of real concern.
i mean, when we see shit about our own continent in the news to do with all those poor sods north of us, most of us, including myself, hardly take any notice. We think about it maybe for 2 seconds and then carry on drinking our caffe lattes….so if we are so superficial about it then, how does it change when we decide to throw money at the problem? our core thinking is one of “shame, poor sods but not i’m ok though” so everything we do after that is acting with respect to that belief system.
Some of us might go an send some money somewhere but to me it just seems like we are making ourselves feel better and less guilty about being a have rather than a have-not. I think the intention seems good superficially but i doubt that it’s what’s really going on subconsiously.
i’m sure there are thousands of exceptions to this but I reckon for most people, its just about trying to end a bit of guilt… Doron Dusheiko(Quote)